For teachers all students are the same, and we have the same
expectations for all of them. The only way we can find out of a student’s
economic situation is by students comments like: I didn’t have breakfast today,
or I am hungry, do you have something to eat Mrs. Stevenson? As teachers we do
notice when students wear the same worn out jacket, or shoes. A couple of times
I noticed a couple of my students were wearing torn shorts or shirts. We can
guess what could be happening at the home, but our best indicator is student’s
performance at school. Hidden rules like the language they use in school and
how they express themselves, what vocabulary they have, most of it comes from
home. My school is good at providing
free breakfast for those students struggling, they also give them money for the
winter shop, they can get free clothes at the nurse’s office for emergencies, every
once in a while they will get a treat in class for birthdays, and positive
reinforcement.
I had a student call
me mom once, I teach fourth grade! I feel is a privilege to see these children
more than their own parents. I don’t have my own children, but when I have
them, I already have an idea of how I will raise them. In reality money is just
a factor in my opinion. Money doesn’t mean anything, what matters most is
quality time with your child. That has more impact on children’s academics. The
more time you spend with your children, and talk to them, the better they will
do in school. I can tell when students have an involved parent, or a stay home
mom. It is just wonderful to see the impact of an adult at home to supervise
homework, behavior, manners, and to implement values.
As teachers, we try to provide the hidden rules, and the
values they may not be getting at home. Nevertheless, love, security, and
stability is something a parent has to provide for a child, so the child can
concentrate in school and academics.
Growing up we didn’t have a lot of money but we had all of
our needs covered, a very stable home, my mom was a stay home mom, our house was paid off, we never moved, we
always went to the same school, we had the same friends and neighbors, and
church friends. That stability was great for me and my brother to concentrate
in academics. My brother and I got scholarships for our private school, and we
both got scholarships for college.
You make a lot of valid points. Consistency is so important for our students. Although we cannot control all factors in their lives, we can be a consistent figure for them.
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